From Sore to Snooze: How to Combat Common Sleep-Related Aches and Pains

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Hilary Tetenbaum
Contributor

Do you toss and turn all night, unable to get comfortable no matter how you contort because of annoying aches in your back, hips, knees, or who knows where else? You're not alone. 

Reports indicate that up to 88% of persons suffering from pain have trouble sleeping. Ironically, some of these pains denying you sleep may be a result of your own doing or lifestyle. Yes. Those poor sleeping patterns, choice of bedding, diet, and so on can transcend the day and affect you in the night.  

But don't despair yet. There are so many simple tweaks within your control that can free you from that dreaded cycle of physical discomfort and unrest.  

This guide will cover all your options to stop suffering in silence.  

  • Prioritize sleep hygiene 

Be strict about keeping a regular sleep schedule, even on weekends. Wind down at least an hour before your designated bedtime by dimming the lights, avoiding screens, maybe sipping some caffeine-free herbal tea or taking a warm bath.  

While prepping your sleep sanctuary with blackout curtains and soothing music, treat yourself to extra firm pillows that fit your sleeping position and comfort level. Let the molded shapes stand in for a massage therapist as you drift off, correctly aligning spine and melting away neck tension overnight. 

And when you get to bed, prioritize your seven hours minimum and about eight maximum, as per the pros. These can go a long way in relieving you of aches and discomfort. 

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  • Mind your bedding 

Take some time to think about whether your current mattress offers you the support and comfort you need for a revitalizing night's sleep and for alleviating aches and pains.  

Maybe it’s sagging in the middle from one too many jumping jack contests with your kids. Perhaps you and your partner have different preferences in mattress firmness that leaves one of you waking up with hip pain. 

Or are those down pillows aggravating your neck strain? Options such as a pillow with buckwheat hulls can significantly improve your comfort levels. Its firm nature grants your head and neck the support it needs to ensure proper spine and neck alignments as you sleep. This quality reduces the chances of strains during sleep. Far from the discomfort, the resulting alignment can also help tone down on snoring and sleep apnea. 

Proper cushioning can lead to peaceful slumber and less creaky mornings. 

  • Stretch it out: wind down with gentle movements 

Take some time before climbing into your rest nest to gently stretch out any tight areas or sore spots. Focus especially on major areas of tension like your lower back, hips, neck, and shoulders.  

This session shouldn't be too complicated. Just some simple seated twists, gentle yoga poses, shoulder rolls. Easy does it. This mini routine can help your muscles relax while reminding your mind and body it’s time to transition to sleep. 

  • Soak in a steamy bath 

Sometimes, all you need to loosen up tight, achy muscles before bed is a good long soak in a steamy bubble bath. The warm water encourages blood flow to soothe sore spots and relax the nervous system to pave the way for sleep. 

Light some candles, put on some chill tunes, grab a book—make your nightly bath a self-care moment. For maximum benefit, add Epsom or Himalayan salts. Magnesium absorbed through your skin can calm cramps and spasms, even anxiety.  

And nothing makes body aches melt away like a hot shower. The pulsing heat and massage of water on fatigued muscles offer sweet relief while rinsing away the stresses of the day. 

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  • Targeted heat therapy 

Apply gentle, moist warmth right on the trouble spots with options like microwavable gel packs, electric heating pads on the lowest setting, or even warm towels fresh from the dryer. The increased circulation and relaxed muscles can provide soothing relief, allowing you to unclench and unwind for quality sleep. 

Pro tip: wrap heating elements in a thin towel to avoid skin injuries. Also, use for 10-15 minutes max and, if you wake in the night with stiffness, you can repeat for a recharge without having to get out of your cozy covers.  

  • Cold therapy 

Got a recent injury like a sprained ankle or pulled muscle throbbing when it's time for bed? While heat therapy works wonders for chronic issues, acute aches and swelling benefit more from icing. Cold therapy constricts blood vessels to reduce inflammation, numbs nerve endings for pain relief, and slows circulation to prevent bruising. 

Research has proven this method to be effective. As a matter of fact, one research study shows that applying cold therapy about one hour after exercise goes a long way in reducing the pain of delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS) patients in about 24 hours. 

That said, set a timer for 15 minutes before bedtime. Gently apply a cold compress, gel ice pack wrapped in a thin towel, or even a bag of frozen peas to problem areas.  

Pro tip: elevate painful limbs while icing to accelerate healing through improved blood flow and drainage.  

  • Sit up straight  

Research in the MDPI journal in 2021 shows that sitting for an average of 4.5 hours at a time can increase lower back muscle stiffness by about 15.7%. That's why you should be mindful of maintaining proper posture whether you’re working at a computer, gardening, or simply scrolling on your phone.  

Slumping and hunching creates undue strain and tension on muscles, joints, discs, and ligaments, which can lead to next-day achiness, interfering with sleep quality.  

Set alerts to remind yourself to stand up straight: shoulders back, chin up, core braced. At work, invest in ergonomic support like lumbar pillows for your desk chair, wrist pads for the keyboard, and an external monitor for your laptop so you don’t crane your neck all day.  

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  • Manage stress 

Of course, it’s not just physical tension causing those sleep-sabotaging aches and pains. Mental stress does, too.  

When anxious, angry, or overwhelmed, your muscles subconsciously contract and knot up as a reflex reaction to guard against injury and pain. This may cause you to toss and turn all night and wake up with stiffness, headaches, or maybe even back spasms.  

Winding down stressful thought loops takes practice. Before bed, consciously soothe your nervous system with relaxation techniques like meditative deep breathing, calming yoga flows, and body scans. Even five minutes can work wonders. 

Over time, regularly counteracting stresses and quieting your racing mind can train your body to power down pain pathways. Staying present through simple practices ultimately stops tension from building up during the day.  

  • Carrying extra weight = extra aches 

If you notice you always wake with sore hips and knees or tender feet no matter how plush your bed, your sleep struggles may stem from packing some extra pounds. When you gain weight, your joints, tendons, and heels inevitably strain under the increased load. The additional padding can also obstruct blood flow and compress nerves.  

To get your weight back in line, give these a thought: 

  • Take a hard look at your diet. Where can you improve nutrition to fuel your body better? Baby steps add up, so start simple—more veggies, more water, less processed snacks. 
  • Discover movement you enjoy, then set a reminder to just do more of it daily, even if it's just energizing housework. Light exercise can protect your joints. 
  • Speaking of protecting joints, low-impact options like walking, swimming, and gentle stretching build strength without added strain. 
  • If, despite your efforts, pain persists, don't ignore it—chat with your doctor to check for underlying causes. 
  • Stay patient and persistent when trying lifestyle tweaks and medical guidance. As pounds come off, so can constant aches. 
  • Picture the victory of climbing into bed free of that nagging soreness once and for all. Let that motivate you through small daily actions. 

The key is realizing you have more control than you think over stubborn weight-related sleep struggles. As the number on the scale drops, so does the strain on your body. When the constant ache subsides, catching quality sleep suddenly gets much easier.  

  • Hydration  

When you don’t drink enough water and other fluids, your body can’t properly lubricate connective tissues between bones. This can lead to stiff, crackly joints. Dehydration can also cause muscle cramps as your cells struggle to get nutrients.  

Far from that, research published in Healthline also shows that a fluid loss of about 1.4% can significantly impact mood and concentration while significantly increasing the frequency of headaches. That's why hydration can make all the difference. 

Here’s how you can consistently stay hydrated: 

  • Always keep a large reusable water bottle with a straw or easy-drink spout on hand at work and at home to sip whenever. It's easier than trying to remember. 
  • Add natural cues—like finishing your first coffee, taking a quick work break, or using the restroom—as prompters to stop and drink some water. 
  • Down a larger glass first thing in the morning and last thing at night to bookend your hydration efforts. No big gulps before bed, though. You may spend your precious sleeping time doing bathroom runs. 
  • Drop some citrus slices or berries for light flavoring if plain water doesn't inspire you.  
  • Have a smaller bottle on your nightstand. If you wake up thirsty in the night, some refreshing H2O right within reach prevents you from losing precious sleep seeking it. 

The more reminders and routines you set to consistently stay sipping, the more habitual hydration becomes. You'll notice reduced stiffness and better sleep payoff. 

  • Therapeutic movement protects your frame 

Exercise may be the last thing you feel like tackling when already fatigued and sore. However, consistent movement designed to support achy structures can preserve joint mobility and protect your frame long-term.  

Low-impact activities like walking, swimming, and gentle yoga keep muscles supple while strengthening the back, hips, and core to take pressure off your skeletal system. Just avoid anything too strenuous close to bed so you have time to wind back down.  

If needed, brace tender joints with compression sleeves and support wraps that stabilize while allowing free range of motion. Try it and see if those a.m. fitness habits lead to p.m. pain relief. 

  • Pain medication 

For temporary soothing, over-the-counter analgesic meds like acetaminophen can dull signals that cause widespread discomfort. However, you should use them cautiously as needed under your doctor’s guidance.  

Topical menthol rubs work similarly by distracting nerves from specific sore spots. Also, natural supplements like turmeric, magnesium, and omega fatty acids work systemically to reduce inflammatory chemicals irritating nerve endings.  

But if truly debilitating pain regularly sabotages sleep multiple times per week, prescription medication formulated specifically for nighttime comfort may be necessary while simultaneously identifying and addressing the root cause.  

  • Consult your doctor 

If intense soreness constantly interrupts your sleep no matter what home remedies you try, it may be time to chat with your doctor or a sleep specialist. Things like arthritis, injuries that never properly healed, hormone changes, and other age-related issues could be at fault. 

Describe your symptoms thoroughly, along with habits and routines that could contribute to the pain, like work stress or diet. From there, a physician can provide professional guidance tailored to your situation. 

It could be anything from physical therapy referrals to prescriptions if necessary. They may also recommend exercise plans, lifestyle changes, or even specialty mattresses and pillows.  

  • Sleep like your favorite streamer 

Take notes from bloggers and influencers who swear by sleep optimization. If it tickles your fancy, consider the blackout curtains, blue light-blocking glasses, white noise machines, and even smart beds that track sleep cycles. 

Try their raved-about products for a month as a fun experiment to discover which modern sleep enhancements work for your body. If after a month your aches have greatly improved along with your energy, it’s a sign certain products contribute to quality sleep—then invest away in those. 

In closing 

There you have it. This guide has covered a lot of ground concerning common aches hampering your sleep. If you're in this situation, don’t despair. With small daily efforts focused on the tips shared in this guide, you can proactively protect your body from strain and misalignment leading to pain flare-ups.  

If you feel in over your head, there's a whole host of doctors and sleep therapists you can confide in. Don't hesitate to reach out to them. Remember, stick with solutions that work for you. Over time, you’ll break free from the cycle of pain and restless nights. 

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